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PRAYING
IN THE SPIRIT SERIES
DELAYS IN ANSWERED PRAYER
Lets look in the book of Romans chapter 15: 22
For this reason I also have been much hindered from coming to you. But now
no longer having a place in these parts, and having a great desire these many
years to come to you, whenever I journey to
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There are two reasons for delays in
answered prayer. Paul wrote this book to the Romans where he has not started a
church there. Paul in writing to the Romans expresses his great desire to go to
them. He says that whenever I go to
As we look at that we must understand
God's language. When God says now or soon, it may not be tomorrow or next week.
God's language is different from ours. Many people when they hear God say now
or soon think that it is next week. Let's lay some background on God's
language. And for that we need some Old Testament scriptures.
Samuel pronounced a judgmental prophecy against
Saul for his disobedience to God in 1 Samuel 13: 13-14 For
now the Lord would have established your kingdom over
Now let's look on in the book of 1 Sam.
15:26-28 Samuel said to Saul, "I will not return with you, for you have
rejected the word of the Lord, and the Lord has rejected you from being king
over
God spoke through Jeremiah's lips and said
after seventy weeks the Israelites will be restored. Daniel was both a prophet
and a bible scholar. As he was studying Jeremiah's prophecies, God spoke to him
regarding the seventy weeks and said they were seventy weeks of years. He said
the time is right for them to return to the Promised Land. And there was an
actual fulfillment but not a total.
So we know that prophetic language is
symbolic. A great prophet of God may come to you and say, "Now I have
called you. Today I have made you an evangelist." Tomorrow don't go and
resign your job. You may have nothing to eat for the next five years before
your ministry takes off. Now to the Lord could be ten years, could be
twenty years, understand His language.
God
told Samuel in 1 Samuel 16:1 Now the Lord said to Samuel, "How long
will you mourn for Saul, seeing I have rejected him from reigning over
In Roman 15 where we read about how Paul
says he had a great desire for many years to see them. It was a burning desire.
And this epistle to the Romans was most probably was written from
I
heard one preacher who preached this sermon in Romans 15. He titled the sermon
as "Unanswered Prayer". I
think he missed the point. There was an answer. But there was a delay in the
answer. Why was there a delay? God did not answer it the way Paul expected it.
He did reach the shores of
And the reason is sometimes God answers in
a different way than we expect it. All the time you are looking for an answer
in this corner here. "Lord when it is?" The answer is already working
on the other side. God is doing something over there and you are still here. We
missed the whole answer. God did not provide the way we expected it to be.
Sometimes we are just looking in one direction the way God provides and we miss
what God is doing. God has million of ways to supply your needs. And that is
one reason why sometimes prayers are delayed. It is because we were in the
wrong place and in the wrong position. When God is already working in one
position and when you move out of that position and just keep a one-track
direction, you missed what God is seeking to supply. God has million of ways to
answer your prayers.
Some of you may be praying for finances.
And all you think is that if only you could get that one deal, you had it made.
You just focus on that one deal. All your expectation is built up and it is
really do or die. Sooner or later your attention gets to that and away from
God. Then when you go further into that deal, that deal means a little
cheating; a little white lie here and there. Slowly because you are just
absorbed in that, you get sucked into the whole thing. Before you realized it
the whole deal falls through. Like a prodigal son you look up to God and say,
"God where are you?" God
replies, "Where are you? It was not His problem. It was your
problem. He could supply all our needs but not necessarily in the way we
expect.
That is why when we go into this prayer, it is
important for us when we pray to focus more on the results and the answer than
on the way that is to come to pass. When we pray, we visualize. It is more
important that we visualize the results. But do not limit God by visualizing
the method He would use. For example, if
you are like Paul praying to go to
I remember talking to a person who was
praying for a life partner. This person
was praying, just focusing either on him or death. Usually when you focus long enough; it is
either him or death; either I get her or I don't want to live. Because you have
focused that way, the end result could be that. That you could end up with him
or her. But how you are going to end up is a different question. How you are going to end up there could be
many ways. Your ways are not necessarily His ways. Our thoughts are not
necessarily His thoughts. So I remembered counseling this person who is now
married. Everybody think that it is not God's will. And there are people who have visions and
said I saw this vision. In that vision
you got involved with a girl who turned into a snake. So everybody opposes.
Finally he came to me. I remained neutral. I gave him enough scriptures for
that person to move into what really is of the Spirit. But things didn't work
out the way he wanted it. It came to a point where it looks like it never was
going to work out. Somehow or other God answered him in a ways that are totally
unexpected. But God still answers. When He speaks to you and promises you
something, you can visualize the result but do not to visualize the method and
limit Him.
So
Paul sees this whole situation. And he knows that he is supposed to end up in
There he was in
Finally when everything looks nice and they
are all ready to launch forth to
Paul also had a part. He never allowed that
vision to die. He knew what he must do. He must go to
One reason for the delay is that God is
answering the way we are have not expected. The answer
does come but not the way we expect it. And we need to be flexible enough to
flow with God's methods and not our methods. Be solid and uncompromising when
it comes to the word. When it comes to
God's message be creative and flexible. Allow Him to work the answers to the
prayers in His ways and not our ways.
The
second reason for delays in answered prayer can be found in Luke 1:13 The angel said to him, "Do not be afraid,
Zechariah, for your prayer is heard; and your wife Elizabeth will bear you a
son, and you shall him John." Do you know what Zechariah replied?
"How do I know this is real?" Zechariah was an old man and his wife
Elizabeth was an old woman. They were probably married in their middle age. In
those days they always wanted to have children very quickly. When the children
did not come the first year, the second year, it concerned them. They did not
start praying when they are old. They
started praying from their early days. And they could have prayed and prayed
and their prayers were still not answered. Now Zechariah was growing older and
older. And now in their old age it tells us here in verse 18 Zechariah himself
said I am an old man and my wife is advanced in age. Let's say they were
married at twenty and if they are now seventy years old, they were praying for
fifty years. Most people would have given up in ten years. When the angel
Gabriel said that his prayers have been answered and he would have a son,
Zechariah said that it is too late. I am too old. My wife is too old. In his
answer you can see the reason for the delay too. In Luke 1: 20 the angel said,
"But behold, you will be mute and not able to speak until the day these
things take place, because you did not believe my word which will be fulfilled
in their own time." In other words, their faith was not very steady. Even
now when they are old and the angel appeared, his faith was still not fully
developed. You will expect some one who the older they grow in God, the greater
faith they would have. If you have been praying for something for very long,
you will have great faith for it.
There are some things that I visualized
for nearly ten years now. And I developed such accuracy in my visualizing on it
that I would live and die by it. If you have lived by a vision, if you have
lived by what God spoke, you will have more faith as the days and years go by.
So we have the second reason for delayed prayers; improperly developed faith is
one major cause of a delay. Perfect faith conceived. Imperfect faith or growing
faith takes a long time.
Look at Rom. 4:17-21 (as it is written,
"I have made you a father of many nations) in the presence of Him whom he
believed - God, who gives life to the dead and cause those things which do not
exist as though they did; who, contrary to hope, in hope believe, so that he
became the father of many nations, according to what was spoken, "So shall
your descendants be." And not being weak in faith, he did not consider his
own body, already dead (since he was about a hundred years old), and the
deadness of Sarah's womb. He did not waver at the promise of God through
unbelief, but was strengthened in faith, giving glory to God and being fully
convinced that what He had promised He was also able to perform.
Did you notice there were two parts of
believing? In verse 17 it says he believed. But in verse 20 he says he did not
waver. If you check the Old Testament
story, the time when God said I have made you a father of many nations was in the early part of
Abraham's life. Abraham left for the Promised Land when he was about 75 years
old. By the time he had a child he was about 100 years old. That will be a gap of about 25 years. In the first 5 or 6 years. God has spoken to him of being a
father of many nations. You know the problem? Abraham wavered. How do we know?
You can see that he got Ishmael. You can see how he laughed when God spoke to
him about child the next year. So that proves that he wavered. It was only in
the last final year that he stopped wavering. Rom.4: 20 fitted it. It was only
up to the time when God spoke to him when he was about 99 years old. He was
still wavering. He laughed. How can it be? There was still an element of doubt.
That is the second reason for delays in answered prayer. Our faith is not fully
developed. It wavers between doubt and the promises of God. There are some
people doing this
yo-yo show for years. They are scratching their heads wondering why their
prayers are delayed. Their faith is not perfected yet. There are many areas of
faith we need to develop. Each area of prayer that you pray in God, you have to
develop until you have perfected faith in that area before you can conceive
it.
Lets say you are praying for finances. You
have to develop until you have perfected faith before you start conceiving it.
And you have developed that you may not have developed faith in praying for the
sick. That is another area to develop faith in. There are many areas. And each
time you exercise faith in an objective way, you have to reach a point of
non-wavering before it manifests.
That is the second major reason why a lot
of prayers are wavering. Noel Hayes prayed for his daughters for years and it
didn't seemed to work. Jesus had to rebuke him and
asked him why is he wavering. "Why do you believe
and then the next moment doubt. Believe and then the next moment doubt. The
angels cannot work for you." Finally he stopped wavering in his mind. He
stopped wavering in his action. Then God worked. From the moment God spoke to
him, he never entertain one more doubt. His faith became perfected for his
daughter. He kept it up for months. She looks like there is no outward change.
But he looked and saw what was invisible. He considered not the things he sees.
He was not moved by what he saw. He refused to doubt. He perfected faith. The
daughter just went wild with all kinds of worldly fame. He did not waver for
months after months and did not doubt. Before that he had been praying for
years and he had doubted. One day the daughter came back, went upstairs and an
angel was sitting on her bed. She got such a fright. She went down to her
father, repented, and came back to God.
God
cannot manifest supernaturally until we stop doubting. God cannot manifest some
of the answers we desire until we stop doubting. Doubt is a thief. He steals
and not only steals he delays. As long as you are willing to doubt, the devil
is most willing to delay you. Some people will on doubting for forty years. And
they wonder why they never receive. You will receive the answer when your faith
is unwavering.
So there are two major reason reasons we have
touch on tonight. The first is that God answers not in our way but in His ways.
So you limit God when you are only looking at one direction. Then you may cause
a delay because you are looking the wrong way.
The second reason is doubt. We must get rid
of these two. If God spoke to you, why do you doubt? We must reach a point
where the question is not whether it can come to pass. The question is whether did God say it or not. If God said it and we are convinced
in our heart that He did give those promises to you, He did give those visions
to you, you cannot allow doubt to come. There are
things that God gave me in a vision that I know that is Him. I am astounded at
how it can ever come to pass. Because I know it was from Him, I respect and
honor Him. I dare not doubt. I only wait
for His purposes. It is important for us to flow with what God is doing.
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